BeingGirl Points - Major Bragging Rights

Close
Show everyone what a superstar you are by racking up BeingGirl points. The more active you are on the site—taking quizzes and polls, playing games, commenting on articles, and submitting questions to Ask the Experts—the more points you’ll earn.
My Life

Confidence & Self Esteem

Sign in to ask the Experts

« Back to Confidence & S... Articles

Added November 21, 2011

UnCool: The Book About Fitting in at School

  • ViewsIcon 11537
  • CommentIcon. 70
RatingStarIcon

Maybe you aren't great at fitting in at school (whatever that means). Maybe you can count your friends on one hand. Maybe the people you do hang out with are more "out" than "in." So?

 

It's cool to be uncool. All it means is that you don't fit the mold. You don't adhere to the status quo. You're unique, quirky, interesting. Different.

 

Maybe you like to read poetry, make art, or build weird crap that flies. Maybe you're a budding fashion designer or bass player or marine biologist. Maybe you're still figuring out exactly who you are and who you want to be. But you know this: You'd rather be considered a little bit of a misfit than exactly like everyone else fitting in at school. Still, there's no denying that not fitting in at school can sometimes be a real pain in the neck. Choosing to be authentically you, quirks and all, isn't always the prettiest or simplest path. That's where the book, Uncool, comes in handy.

 

With Uncool, you'll ponder the social world around you, learn the all-important Rules of Misfitness, and gain a better understanding of your arch nemesis. You'll also get pointers on how to refine your fashion aesthetic and how to handle frenemies. You'll learn to align yourself with fellow free thinkers and how to figure out where you feel comfortable fitting in at school.

 

You'll be guided through the sucky parts of being socially on the fringe, and find out how great it is to be awesomely, independently, absolutely yourself. Along the way, you might even realize you're more uncool than you thought. Which, of course, only makes you that much cooler. Here's an example of the tips and tricks you'll learn to about fitting in at school:

 

A few of The Unrules

  • Be kind to your fellow misfits.
  • Believe that black is a color suitable for any occasion, worthy even of being added to the rainbow.
  • Think. Be. Think and be different.
  • Throw caution to the wind. Take chances with fashion, hobbies, hopes, and dreams.
  • Be okay with wearing things that your mother, grandmother, or old neighbor thinks are ugly.
  • Don't be afraid to look weird.
  • Write a blog. Make a documentary film. Publish a 'zine. Learn the accordion. Build a radio-controlled blimp. Express your individuality in a healthy, creative way.

 

Of course, it goes without saying that the only real hard and fast rule of not fitting in at school is that there are no real hard and fast rules of misfitness. In other words, as a misfit you're free to chuck what you like. You can toss this entire list and make up your own. Or just weed through it, adding and editing as you please. For more, check out Uncool.

Close
 
 
Rate this:
70
comments so far
Amelia_Loves_U
Amelia_Loves_U
Posted May 15, 2012
Im kinda in between even though nobody really understands me I have a few good friends who get my point. I have some people I don't want to be around and others I love to be around. Everybody comes to me when they need advice for some reason but treat me like nothing the next day. People are usually 2 faced towards me. Other than like 5 or 6 people. I know that I am loved and that people care but I don't feel like they do. It feels empty, like theres something missing, a hole. What they say feels fake and meaningless. I cant say why it just does. Like everyone else who knows me would tell you I was never a normal child. Im just a bunch of random stuff put together.
Amelia_Loves_U
Amelia_Loves_U
Posted May 15, 2012
Yeah and Emo people dont have a lot of people who like them. Well not where I live anyway.
miyah_allmond
miyah_allmond
Posted May 11, 2012
Me Miyah ... Popular... What the heck .. Yea I try to fit in ALOT ..But once my boyfriend and I started dating he noticed that I was trying ... Thats when I realized I had someone who liked me for me :) Dont try and fit in juss be yourself !
Frog<3er8242
Frog<3er8242
Posted May 05, 2012
Hey girlies!!!!!! I'm kinda popular, but the most popular kid in my grade is probobly Savannah. She is super pretty!
trishtrish01
trishtrish01
Posted May 01, 2012
i love to talk but when it comes to talking to boys i get the swirles everyone knows me i make sure of it meaning even my sister's friends friends know who i am but i act relly nice to them do not ask why am not making any sence im getting to that . the only problem with me is like i said talking to boys i was bullied for 3 years by a group of boys and im afraid if i say the wrong thing it will happen again i dont want to swap schools just because of a few words
baby v ymcmb
baby v ymcmb
Posted April 14, 2012
i am popular im dating someone poular and ALL my friends are poular. I wast always popular thow i used to have lots of baby fat but know thats gone. if you think your Not popular your wrong. i hang out with kids that others dont like. it dosent mean there popular but it doest mean there a nobody!!:)
BUCK123BUCK
BUCK123BUCK
Posted April 09, 2012
i am totally not popular,i wear a hearing aid(plz dont ask how that goes into being not cool cuz im clueless),my friends are all from different cirles and im not in a circle i love reading and pottery i am what i call socially akward i hate school dances! i have gotten bullied mostly by jerky guys my crush well he is very cute and about 80 girls want to go out with him those r the popular girls i am afriad to tell him i like him bc why would he got out w/ me if he could go ou with miss popular also i think he does not like me but he is smart, hilarous,genourus,quirky and most of all he stands up for what he belives in when his friends were bulling me last year he told them to stop,"Lets sit at our table(it was in lunch),told the lunch moniter who said that they were just flirting and to chill and then went to the princepal's with me.he lost about 10 friends and he barley knew me we only had gym together oh yeah he is cute
roxylola44
roxylola44
Posted March 25, 2012
yeah . i like this guy thats popular too ,but he thinks im invisible. <3
Total Blondie
Total Blondie
Posted March 20, 2012
I hate the popular people too. I've got a crush on a popular guy, and I know I'll probably never get him.
Smile1720158
Smile1720158
Posted March 18, 2012
im a precusstionest in band. (band drumbs, cymbles, bacically anything u can hit with a stick.) but the pop girls always get the cute guys. their all rich and have the latest fastions. i play hockey and volleyball and have a crush on one of the pop girls boyfriends. i think he likes me to but she HATES me!!! HELP!
Unlock the BG Newsletter.
Unlock the BG Newsletter
Already a VIP? SIGN IN
Tampax Training Camp
Watch Videos
Always Infinity
Always Infinity
Todays Hot Poll
How did you feel when you got your first period?
114425384
Relieved
Excited
Embarrassed
Horrified
I’ll let you know when it happens to me!
find this quiz and more
GO
Are you a
daddy's girl?
bbblink

BeingGirl.com


In order to get the best possible experience using this website, we
recommend that you use Internet Explorer 7 or above. You may
download it here.